View at Oasis! |
This past week has been a crazy week. Sunday we had our
first free day here. I spent it going into town with friends to shop and then
met up with everyone at Oasis for lunch and to lie out on the beach. Oasis is
known as the “white person” place. It’s where all foreigners go to eat and hang
out. It’s right in town and is a beautiful view of the ocean, castle, and town.
I continued working at Futures Academy Complex in the
daycare center. The week was a challenge to say the least. The attendants left
me alone many times with the children as they went to shop in the market. It
baffles me here that they can leave young children alone for so long, but I
have begun to accept it. Its just part of the culture here and I’m trying to
teach myself that. But let me just say, I have fallen in love with these children! They are absolutely adorable! Their smiles and laughs are contagious and could light up a room! I've shared some pictures of them!
There is one child in particular, little Elijah. He is 2 years old. He is in a few of these pictures. I could tell on Wednesday that he was not himself so I asked the attendant what was wrong with him and she informed me his father had just passed away. It absolutely broke my heart. The attendants did nothing to try and console him or get him to stop crying. So I picked him up and just held him the entire day because I didn't know what else I could do except let this little boy feel loved by someone. He's too little to know what was going on and where his dad went, all he knows is that his dad is gone. The rest of the week, he was the one who ran up to me each morning with the biggest smile on his face and gave me the biggest hugs that I will never forget. Elijah definitely touched my heart and I'm hoping I was able to touch his.
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Little Elijah and I at break time |
Unfortunately we had to tell our faculty leaders about the attendants
leaving us alone with the children, because it is a HUGE liability for the
university and ourselves. Reasons why it’s a liability: 1) 2 American girls
responsible for 120 children ranging in age from 1-4. 2) The children don’t
speak English yet, and we don’t speak Fante (the main language here). 3) The
children don’t listen to us because they can’t understand us. 4) If something
happens to a child, technically we are responsible.
So as you can see, this was causing a MAJOR problem and
honestly I was coming home exhausted from work everyday. I was expected to have
a full curriculum planned for these children when there is not a lot a 1 year
old will learn from someone who doesn’t speak their language. But hey, I tried
and I got those kids to learn the numbers 1-5. I’m pretty proud of myself because I am not an education
major so me coming up with lessons is a challenge…But I struggled because as you can maybe tell, I fell in love with these kids and absolutely adore them! I don't want to leave them!
Two of my favorite boys at Futures: Francis & Elijah |
Because of all the issues, we had to have a meeting with the
Social Welfare Department Director and our advisors to figure out a solution
because they want us to have a fun time in Ghana, not a stressful one. And
ultimately it was decided that the third week would still be spent at Futures
Academy but the attendants would be talked to and if they left us alone one
more time, we would have to leave. I am hoping for the best! I’ll let you know
next week how it goes…
Besides work, the week was spent hanging out with everyone
at the house and going out to explore more parts of the city! We found a cute
new restaurant that is owned by a German lady so it has DELICIOUS food. It’s my
new favorite! We also spend lots of nights just playing games, watching movies,
and just hanging out at the ProWorld house.
I am SO excited for this weekend because we are doing our
first impact project to go into the village and help build a clinic and then
going to Biriwa Beach Resort to have lunch and go to the ocean!
I hope you are all doing well back in the States! Can’t wait
to see you all soon